Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Evening blogosphere, having just made dinner, i figured i'd give my blog a visit and post for the day.  The main thought lingering in my mind, is...how do you move on, forget someone, stop loving them.  That is something that they never teach you at school, imagine MOVING ON 101: How to forget that ex, it would be an interesting class. I think the thing is, forgetting someone is something we have to learn for ourselves, have to blunder around in that painful darkness that surrounds us when someone dumps you, says they no longer want you in their lives...that whole, 'it's not you it's me' deal.  You have to learn to live without that one person that you relied on for so long, have to go back to that self-reliant person that you were before.  It's a daunting task, i know from personal experience but something that i learnt is that, you don't need people in your lives that don't need you in theirs, because it's pointless to hurt over people that aren't hurting over you, get it? There's this tumblr quote that i found that helped me a lot: "Sometimes you just gotta be your own hero and save your own little heart.  Because sometimes, the people you can't imagine living without, can live without you."  Just a thought, remember the greatest thing you can do in your life is to follow your dreams and passions, regardless of obstacles...whether the obstacle is a heartbreak, a bad mark, or people that don't believe in you, you just have to keep moving, because life will carry on going whether you're ready to move with it or not.  Be happy bloggers, life is too short not to be.

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